I'm curious, why do you guys go on this website?
Is it addiction?
Personally, I have created and deleted hundreds of accounts on this website lmao. I've been struggling with porn addiction for 8 years now.
But I hope you guys don't take offence to this but, what are your reasons for going on this website?
Where does morality play with you guys?
What are some of the justifications that allow you to engage in behaviour many would consider "perverted"?
For the people who do not regard using this website as wrong, why do you think it's right?
I am asking because I am curious. I do not intend to judge.
I don't have an outlet to express my attraction towards the opposite sex.
I don't think I ever have? I was raised abstinent all through school. In the rare cases I did approach a girl she had a boyfriend already. In cases where a girl liked me instead, she had a boyfriend already. I was so poor that even if neither were true I couldn't take her anywhere. Many thought it was better to assume I was gay. I received unwanted advances from other boys because of it, which I still resent. According to a lot of people I am attractive, but it has been the single worst aspect of my life. Everyone has hangups about talking to me like normal fucking human beings and I don't like talking to them either as a result. So I just stay alone and out of the way, so everyone can think and live in peace, including myself.
Clearly when I'm around, people just talk sex. The women think I'm not worth their time and just try to get me out of my pants.
The men measure dicks. Look who I'm fucking.
Look at what you should be doing.
Look at how nobody has availability anymore.
It's fucking tiresome.
All I've ever been offered is sex.
I will gladly do it for them, thank you. I've done it 28 years now. I can handle my shit.
I genuinely don't like talking to most people, but with women it's even less enjoyable because, when I talk to guys they only want to talk about sex and I don't like talking about their selfish conquest all the time, but with women I don't want to sexualize the conversation because that is taboo in workplaces.
Now, there's no place I even have sexuality at all. I'm just sexless. Asexual.
But I'm not. I've liked girls since I was 4 years old. The same age, I asked my mom why her chest looked different than dad.
Society has been sexually dysfunctional all my life. Girls could never just be modest, boys could never just share interest in things other than sex.
I've been so turned off by the idea of weaponized sex permeating all interactions I've had with other people. It has never had a chance to become 'romanticized'. Sex is always used just as a display of something another person has that I don't and that routinely makes me want it less. I've never had a girlfriend, I always work with old women who hate men (obviously they resent still having to work lol) or are married.
So really, I don't like most porn either. I just need somewhere to remind myself I actually have sexual needs.