I do believe you.I can assure you, it’s a thing
Something guys forget, I think, is that people that work in adult entertainment, do have lives outside of their work.
They're married, have kids, and their own extended families. They travel and have hobbies. A lot of them have primary jobs as well and adult entertainment is something they do on the side.
Not to get into a long discussion on it, but I find some men dehumanize the entire field of work.