I'd love to get a survey of how well known Hitomi Tanaka is from the sort of guys who "prioritise faces over large tits". Because I cannot imagine many of the people who like generic porn, even those who specifically like generic porn featuring Asian women, would encounter Hitomi. If I'm wrong, then I'm wrong, but I would be surprised to learn I was wrong.
There are definitely men who aren't attracted to big boobs.
[1] [2] [3]. Science backs this up
[4] There is definitely evidence of a maximum size for the average man.
But, since you clearly propose it's a preference, how often can you forego that preference in porn? How often can you look at porn featuring a woman who is slim, has a striking face, a big ass, and a flat stomach but modest breasts? If it's a preference, surely you could get off to women with AA cups right? After all, you're choosing to prefer one part of the total package over other aspects, so can't you just prefer another part? Can you honestly tell me you can get off to porn where no-one in it is bigger than a B cup?
Lets go in the other direction too. What do you think a fetish actually is? Is a thing for French Maids a fetish? If so, what makes it a fetish, is it the outfit? What about a thing for BBW's? Is that a fetish? After all, it's deviating from the norm, you said yourself, most men are attracted to flat stomachs. But it's not a removable trait like a French Maid's outfit is (at least not immediately removable without diet and excersise). But if BBW's are a fetish, why aren't enormous (as in H cups and beyond, not the average C cup) tits a fetish? Why is it merely a preference to exclusively like women with a cup size that's in the top 0.0...01 percentile? Why is that not a fetish?
This is my fundamental core. Why is liking breasts that are so much bigger than any average, and bigger than most guys want, at the expense of other stereotypically attractive things like faces, butts, slim waistlines and so on not a fetish when it accurately fits into the same criteria as so many other fetishes that are tied to traits an individual possesses? And the only answer you have is "well, most guys like big boobs because of evolution" and you can't accept the notion that actually, the average guy also has an upper limit on boob size
So tell me. Can you actually get off to porn that doesn't include anyone larger than a B cup? And what do you define as a fetish? Those are the two sticking points for me. If the answer to the former is a yes, then you clearly have big boob lust as a preference, something I, and I'm sure many others, don't get that choice in because of our fetish.
Ok, you keep asserting that men have an “upper limit on boob size” - where did you get this information from?
Is this based on some men loving “zero tits” (a tiny percentage of men) or that there is a LACK of commercially famous or well known women with ENOURMOUS tits.
You also stated that it must be a fetish due to so few women possessing very large breasts, so it’s rare therefore must be a fetish for men to like it? Which is another very weak argument.
I personally love large breasts, so it’s not about me.
What I wrote above is about men’s natural biological attraction to womens breasts and that’s it’s not a fetish in any way.
Hitomi Tanaka is EXTREMELY popular. I tell mates or guys when I’ve been overseas when they ask when I first got into asian girls, I tell them, because of Hitomi Tanaka.
Every time I’ve said that, no matter who the guys, they all know her (asians, europeans, latin americans, Australians etc.). Feel free to go to xvideos or phub or wherever has her wiki info to confirm her huge popularity worldwide.
We can all agree - Hitomi has mega large breasts - they don’t fall into the “big tits” bra sizes of D-G cup - she’s like a J-L cup on a tiny frame.
If Hitomi is soo popular worldwide as a pornstar and her main feature is a combination of very very large tits, a slim body and a somewhat pleasant face, that completely goes against your argument that “most men don’t like breasts too big - therefore huge breasts are a fetish” argument.
If liking enormous breasts is a “fetish”, the same can be said about liking enourmous asses - but no-one that I’ve ever heard of regards liking an enormous ass a fetish ever. Every black guy (and alot of other guys too) I’ve ever met would basically have that fetish if that was the case.
How is it deviating from the norm? Have you ever heard a man or woman (personally say this) for that matter say, “you know what, her breasts are just too big, it turns me off”
I’ve been with some extremely chesty women, dating, as girlfriends, in public etc.
I’ve never heard this said by anyone and I’ve never read about any male saying that anywhere, any time. Not on television, in films, documentaries or interviews about mens dating or preferences or any studies.
Is there any actual evidence that you have that men COMMONLY (not a tiny percentage) don’t like very very large breasts or are turned off by very large breasts on their own (not in combination with an overweight or obese woman)?
Have you actually met any women that have exceptionally large breasts? Many of the ones I’ve met want to get a breast reduction? Do you know why?
While they might say, “bras hurt with breasts this big” (solution: no need to wear a bra), the biggest reason is because EVERYONE stares at them wherever they go - men and women. They say, men and women constantly grab and squeeze their tits, they have men constantly approaching them everywhere they go, no-one looks them in the face, everyone thinks they’re “always horny” or “always up for it” even when they’re not (which is because big breasts are an ovulation/arousal signal to men).
If people thought big breasts were disgusting or ugly or a fetish - why would such a huge volume of normal people be so attracted to them all the time?
