Would you consider cheating if I have a girlfriend but also I like to watch and see videos and pics of busty women on my computer?

[Sabrine Yasmine]

I am single but I want to have a girlfriend( a busty girlfriend) but I also have many videos and pics of busty and attractive women stored on my pc. That also includes files of pornstars and famous models. In my opinion I would not be cheating if I have a girlfriend but also like to watch those videos and pics of women with large busts because I never met them in person and I have no connection with them and they are just computer files. But I am pretty sure my girlfriend would not like it if she found out I have all those pics and videos of attractive women. What would she think of that?

 

[jostjost3]

In my experience, cheating is whatever your partner considers cheating lol

 

[Dave2]

It’s fine if you want to keep that stuff on your phone or computer, but I wouldn’t go showing other women your porn collection.

When comparing faces, it’s hard to make the argument that one face is prettier than the other as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

But when woman compare breast size for example, and let’s say your girl knows your into big boobs, having pictures of other women with larger breasts is just going to make your girlfriend feel insecure.

I had a B cup friend of mine ask to see a picture of my girlfriend.

Stupid me shows the B cup girl a picture of my girl showing off lots of J cup cleavage.

The B cup girl didn’t talk to me for like a week.

Even my girl goes on my Facebook and Instagram and looks up all the girls I’m following or are friends with and tries to see if I have seen them.

As far as my girl is concerned she thinks she has the biggest breasts of all the girls I have seen. I prefer for it to stay that way.

 

[fopde6593]

depending on which situation and where did you saw it, for example, if my gf caught me watching busty girls on pornhub or something like that, it ain't cheating, but she saw you watching on online chatting or worse, PM from email or personal communication site or app.
for me that's cheating

 

[Dave2]

depending on which situation and where did you saw it, for example, if my gf caught me watching busty girls on pornhub or something like that, it ain't cheating, but she saw you watching on online chatting or worse, PM from email or personal communication site or app.
for me that's cheating

True!

However I wouldn’t be keeping that stuff on my computer period if she was living with me.

 

[eric69]

It doesn't matter what we think, it's only her opinion that's important and if you want to be long term with her, then it's best to either delete the collection or save it to a cloud and then ignore it.

 

[MrBoobieMan03]

Easy..three choices, and choose wisely...

1. Remain single, and not have to worry about "cheating" at all.

2. Get in a monogamous relationship, keep your stash hidden, and worry about "cheating".

3. Find a girlfriend who accepts you for who you are; breast fetish and all.

Me personally, I do not understand the strong desire to be in a relationship if your breasts fetish goes beyond ONE woman.

But hey, whatever rattles your chain.

 

[LevelHeaded]

this girl im talking to now says she has a problem with a guy looking at a type of porn for something thats not related to her. she does have a nice set but nothing this would huge or anything. so it really depends on the partner, i would hope that if i have a gf i wouldnt need porn

 

[Sabrine Yasmine]

Find a girlfriend who accepts you for who you are; breast fetish and all.

This third opion is the best.

 

[Sabrine Yasmine]

Me personally, I do not understand the strong desire to be in a relationship if your breasts fetish goes beyond ONE woman.

Even if a guy is in a relationship if he is into big boobs he will find any woman with large breasts attractive. That is normal. Even marries women also tell other women how other guy is attractive. They just do not get into another sexual and romantic relationship beyond that of the person they are married/committed.

 

[MrBoobieMan03]

Even if a guy is in a relationship if he is into big boobs he will find any woman with large breasts attractive.

No denying that. But when you start doing stuff behind your partners back, that is where things become problematic.

That is normal. Even marries women also tell other women how other guy is attractive. They just do not get into another sexual and romantic relationship beyond that of the person they are married/committed.

Sureee.

 

[raphael77]

Don't blame yourself for watching porn while you're in a relationship. she will not always be available for sex and it is possible that you will resort to masturbation. at that moment, we lose control of the mind a little and can come to think about other women. however, worry about your mental and emotional health and about the quality of your relationship if this becomes too frequent. in my understanding, feeling more horny for porn than for your girlfriend is not healthy. question why you are in this relationship if she is not the woman who most satisfies you sexually? some will criticize me, but that's what I think.

 

[liesder31]

It’s fine if you want to keep that stuff on your phone or computer, but I wouldn’t go showing other women your porn collection.

When comparing faces, it’s hard to make the argument that one face is prettier than the other as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

But when woman compare breast size for example, and let’s say your girl knows your into big boobs, having pictures of other women with larger breasts is just going to make your girlfriend feel insecure.

I had a B cup friend of mine ask to see a picture of my girlfriend.

Stupid me shows the B cup girl a picture of my girl showing off lots of J cup cleavage.

The B cup girl didn’t talk to me for like a week.

Even my girl goes on my Facebook and Instagram and looks up all the girls I’m following or are friends with and tries to see if I have seen them.

As far as my girl is concerned she thinks she has the biggest breasts of all the girls I have seen. I prefer for it to stay that way.

Dave, I don't think you are stupid. It's not your fault this B cup friend wanted to see your GF and then got all insecure when she saw her JJs. She wanted, she got it.

For her to have that kind of reation, I guess she had some romantic interest in you and once she saw your girlfriend she realized there was no chance lol..

 

[martin1024]

I am single but I want to have a girlfriend( a busty girlfriend) but I also have many videos and pics of busty and attractive women stored on my pc. That also includes files of pornstars and famous models. In my opinion I would not be cheating if I have a girlfriend but also like to watch those videos and pics of women with large busts because I never met them in person and I have no connection with them and they are just computer files. But I am pretty sure my girlfriend would not like it if she found out I have all those pics and videos of attractive women. What would she think of that?

if the girl is a good one, she will not have problem with that - when my gf found some stuff on my PC, she just laughed Nothing to worry.

 

[jugglvr]

Here is what I learned during therapy a few years back: It doesn't matter if you don't consider it cheating. If she does....then, it is cheating!