Most disappointing breast reduction of someone you know/knew

Probably the one thing that disappoints me with br’s is how bad the surgeon has done his job.I have been with three ladies who have had a br including my wife and nothing is worse than seeing a heap of scars over c cup breasts.Also they are misshapen.My wife has the boat anchor scars from 25 years ago and their shape is squarish.As such even gentle rough play was painful.Another lady barely took her bra off.I realise that surgical techniques have got better but still a lady I know recently had one and it wasn’t too bad except she is left with nothing.I am all for a br if the condition is deliberating but when it is to be ‘fashionable’to society then that annoys me along with Botox lips,horrendous face lifts,bum implants etc.

Went out with a lady who was huge ,can’t remember bra size but she let me measure them,60 inches plus(that’s how long the tape was).We broke up due to some idiot ex.Saw her a few years later and she was a d cup at best.
 
I was looking through the forum, came across Nellie Robert from YouTube and her thread(s) on here. It got me thinking and it reminded me of a documentary I saw many moons ago.

Of course there is some truth in the uncomfortable-ness of big breasts, expensive bras, stares, possible back/neck/shoulder pain (some girls even saying that causes headaches from the strain), difficulty finding clothes, exercising and all that. And I guess we have to try and see it from their point of view too. Some of those aspects are difficult to change, however the feeling of "being different", "being bigger", self-conciousness, body-consciousness, low (body) self-worth and low self-esteem, while it for the woman can probably be related to their size, it's a thing WE can help them feel better about, something that WE can actually do something about. And hopefully done so in the right, respectful way. Now, don't get me wrong, I too have written posts like: "dammit, those boobs need my dick between them!", and we likely all think that way. It's just not the right approach towards them though, in my opinion, unless in the right setting of course.

So I mentioned this documentary I saw years back, where some girl was very unhappy with her somewhat large breasts. She had had some less-than-right-for-her boyfriends treating her badly, but the documentary ended with her speaking about her new boyfriend, who had made her accept her body, be happy about it, have better self-esteem and all that.

Some things can't be changed, some things can.
 
You're so right, that's one body type I can't forgive.. like, I can understand slim girls that have small titties but a fat/chubby girl has the obligation to have big boobs... fat girl with small tits simply got the unluckiest genetics of them all.. their body stored the fat in all the wrong places lol..

I have a friend who was like 320 pounds and was a 38B cup. Meanwhile my girlfriend was like 180 pounds and a 38J.

The heavier girl got a gastric bypass, looks great but still got the B cup tits. Always trying to compete with the J cup girl and has the nerve to ask me to go bra shopping.

First of all for me to take a girl bra shopping the following must happen or apply

#1 You have to have very large breasts and not be able to afford to buy a bra because they cost too much money.

#2 I go with you to the store and we pick out new bras together.

#3 I get to stand in the dressing room at the store while your trying the bras on and might help determine if the bra is the correct size. Or if I’m not allowed I get to peek into the dressing room to see how it fits after you try each one on.

#4 After I pay for your new bras, we go back to either your place or my place and we try them on.

I will personally unhook your old bra and help you put on the new one.

After putting on the new bra, I will test to make sure it fits properly before eventually working it off.

We will repeat this process with each bra, and you will pose for pictures in each bra.

#5 After we make sure all your bras fit properly, I will usually want to have sex. This part is usually non negotiable, unless your so fricken good looking I manage to bust my nut before it’s time.

Just doesn’t work our right for the B cup girl, but I got the B cup girl begging to go shopping where the J cup girl is just a spoiled brat most of the time.
 
I have a friend who was like 320 pounds and was a 38B cup. Meanwhile my girlfriend was like 180 pounds and a 38J.

The heavier girl got a gastric bypass, looks great but still got the B cup tits. Always trying to compete with the J cup girl and has the nerve to ask me to go bra shopping.

First of all for me to take a girl bra shopping the following must happen or apply

#1 You have to have very large breasts and not be able to afford to buy a bra because they cost too much money.

#2 I go with you to the store and we pick out new bras together.

#3 I get to stand in the dressing room at the store while your trying the bras on and might help determine if the bra is the correct size. Or if I’m not allowed I get to peek into the dressing room to see how it fits after you try each one on.

#4 After I pay for your new bras, we go back to either your place or my place and we try them on.

I will personally unhook your old bra and help you put on the new one.

After putting on the new bra, I will test to make sure it fits properly before eventually working it off.

We will repeat this process with each bra, and you will pose for pictures in each bra.

#5 After we make sure all your bras fit properly, I will usually want to have sex. This part is usually non negotiable, unless your so fricken good looking I manage to bust my nut before it’s time.

Just doesn’t work our right for the B cup girl, but I got the B cup girl begging to go shopping where the J cup girl is just a spoiled brat most of the time.

I literally had the same process with each of the girls I dated.

They were all busty women who couldn't afford their $50 minimum bras, so I agreed to buy them as many new bras as they wanted under the conditions that

1. I got to see them personally try it on
2. If not possible, they had to text me a pic of them wearing the bra the next day.

Option 1 meant we were almost always having sex after the bra try-on. Option 2 meant I got to keep a permanent memory of them in a bra and always perked me up the next day at work. I also had a rule for any woman I was dating but hadn't had sex with just yet, that any bra they had that needed replacing, I'd replace free of charge immediately but they had to hand it over. I have a collection of over 30 bras I've acquired from dozens of women over the years because of this. I used to have them hanging on a hat rack for display until I wound up getting a steady girlfriend and she found it "creepy" so I had to put them in storage.

I was looking through the forum, came across Nellie Robert from YouTube and her thread(s) on here. It got me thinking and it reminded me of a documentary I saw many moons ago.

Of course there is some truth in the uncomfortable-ness of big breasts, expensive bras, stares, possible back/neck/shoulder pain (some girls even saying that causes headaches from the strain), difficulty finding clothes, exercising and all that. And I guess we have to try and see it from their point of view too. Some of those aspects are difficult to change, however the feeling of "being different", "being bigger", self-conciousness, body-consciousness, low (body) self-worth and low self-esteem, while it for the woman can probably be related to their size, it's a thing WE can help them feel better about, something that WE can actually do something about. And hopefully done so in the right, respectful way. Now, don't get me wrong, I too have written posts like: "dammit, those boobs need my dick between them!", and we likely all think that way. It's just not the right approach towards them though, in my opinion, unless in the right setting of course.

So I mentioned this documentary I saw years back, where some girl was very unhappy with her somewhat large breasts. She had had some less-than-right-for-her boyfriends treating her badly, but the documentary ended with her speaking about her new boyfriend, who had made her accept her body, be happy about it, have better self-esteem and all that.

Some things can't be changed, some things can.

I literally think the problem is "Fake boob lovers".

So many guys claim to love big breasts but don't actually do anything with them. They'll fondle them, suck on them, maybe even tit-fuck the first time. But the moment they acquire their big titted goddeses all love of big breasts kind of leaves the relationship. Big breasts just becomes a checkmark on the woman's profile instead of still being part of them. My ex-girlfriend had a serious problem where dudes wanted to date her because of her huge tits, but then once they got with her after the first time they had sex (which is when all the energy of big boob loving was released) she just became just another woman instead of being the special big breasted woman she actually was. She told me I was the first guy who actually treated her breasts right as opposed to just being a trophy. Others guys didn't even want to buy her expensive bras despite her pleas that she'd model them for them. I was the only guy who ever massaged her breasts for her outside of the first week. I've had so many friends of mine upon actually having sex with a big boobed woman just exclaim that it wasn't anything that special, which is probably what all of these guys are. The thrill of the hunt but they don't know what to do once they actually caught them.
 
I literally think the problem is "Fake boob lovers".

So many guys claim to love big breasts but don't actually do anything with them. They'll fondle them, suck on them, maybe even tit-fuck the first time. But the moment they acquire their big titted goddeses all love of big breasts kind of leaves the relationship. Big breasts just becomes a checkmark on the woman's profile instead of still being part of them. My ex-girlfriend had a serious problem where dudes wanted to date her because of her huge tits, but then once they got with her after the first time they had sex (which is when all the energy of big boob loving was released) she just became just another woman instead of being the special big breasted woman she actually was. She told me I was the first guy who actually treated her breasts right as opposed to just being a trophy. Others guys didn't even want to buy her expensive bras despite her pleas that she'd model them for them. I was the only guy who ever massaged her breasts for her outside of the first week. I've had so many friends of mine upon actually having sex with a big boobed woman just exclaim that it wasn't anything that special, which is probably what all of these guys are. The thrill of the hunt but they don't know what to do once they actually caught them.

Absolutely. I see busty escorts all the time and most of them are amazed with the amount of time I spend on their breasts.

I actually have a way of feeling them up which women seem to enjoy.

I’ll hear so many times that a guy squeezed them a few times and that was it, then right on to just regular sex.

I can’t telk you how many times I skipped sex, just to focus on breasts and a tit fuck.

I actually have several escorts who I see which I have never needed to have sex because their breasts where so awesome and huge.
 
I have a friend who was like 320 pounds and was a 38B cup. Meanwhile my girlfriend was like 180 pounds and a 38J

Aarrgh then you've seen what I'm talking about... I can only wonder how pathetic the heavier girl looked naked... I guess even a man at that weight would have bigger boobs than her lol..
 
Two from college come to mind. One was a widowed resident advisor in her 40s, used to advise I student group. Her sheer blouses always gapped at the buttons and gave views of her monster lacy white bras beneath. She always seemed oblivious to ho busty she was, once breaking out into a jog at a picnic we had, her tits bounced from her belly to her chin almost in slow motion. She reduced from a 34H to a C cup before leaving her job.

The second was a 34J biracial student who was the talk of campus when she arrived. Beyond stacked, tall brown with huge tits and hips with a wasp waist. Her favorite outfit was a straw hat and a long denim dress that had to be fastened from the back. Another outfit was a black mesh sweater she just wore over a jumbo black bra. I remember in food service conversations she’d absent mindedly lay her jugs on the table and I ran into her drunk one night after we became friends, she was late for a ride and just grabbed her tits and ran off full speed. The most awkward, she worked at the mail counter and I stopped by for a chat. She was wearing a tight white halter sweater and at one point-it was a cold winter evening- her nipples spontaneously popped out through her bra and top. big nozzle like September Carrino nips too. I must’ve been tearing up trying to keep eye contact and she played it off calmly crossing her arms.

We damn near had a funeral when she came back from a break with 4 cups smaller.
 
34 fucking O cup

Here’s the story...

When I was in my 20s I was a personal trainer at a gym. This girl walks in and my jaw dropped to the floor. My coworkers made fun of my reaction.

This girl was walking on the treadmill and I had never seen tits that size in my life, let alone the insane wobbling that I was witnessing.

I went straight to her. Introduced myself and the chemistry was pure fire on both sides.

The problem was I was married.

We flirted for over a year. She was my ultimate fantasy. She even tried to pull my cock out at a party which only by the Grace of God I denied.

I moved away to another city with my wife. And I came back on vacation (minus the wife).

Key point to the story: I wasn’t happy in marriage. And I was starting to party hard.

So I come back and just decided FUCK IT and let’s FUCK HER.

No exaggeration we fucked over 30 times in that week. I had several years of pent up fantasies built up. And on her side also. To this day, it’s possibly the greatest sexual chemistry ever (and I’ve slept with over 150 girls).

Sadly we never fucked again. I went back home and she got shagged up with a dude.

Long story short she had them cut off. I was fucking pissed. Obviously 99% of my attraction left with them.
 
That's kinda the fear I have now going into any relationship or meeting girls with really big breasts. There's a chance they'd want them gone. There's really only ending it, should that happen. It's downhill regardless.

You either stay for the personality, which is hopefully good, but lose all sexual chemistry, leading to a dead sex life and it seems a woman will feel unattractive then, leading to insecurities and tension in the relationship.

Or you're the bad guy breaking up, because of the lack of sexual attraction. Of course you might need to come up with a good excuse for it, but it would be obvious to anyone that "tits gone" is the reason for breaking up.

If you ask me, searching for the whole package, instead of "settling for less", and being what some people may call superficial, is not that at all. You want to instill confidence and good self-esteem about their personality and body and make them feel attractive. Without one or the other, at some point it's doomed to fail for me. I struggle even settling "just for the boobs", I need something else too - a functional brain is sexy too, but not without the boobs.

You know what I'm saying here though, of course. I don't really find it that superficial to have preferences, even if ours may be considered a bit extreme.
 
Not exactly a reduction in the traditional sense but it had the effect of it. Had a woman I've known for over a decade get some serious surgery done due to medical issues. At the time she was overflowing an L cup with almost 50 inch hips and ass cheeks like basketballs. Hadn't seen her in six months since the surgery until last night. Probab ly half the size everywhere, and while she's got the hourglass figure and still rocking an ample (I'd guess) DD or F, the massive loss plus the knowledge that I was firmly friendzoned killed off what little attraction was left. Probably for the best.
 
Not exactly a reduction in the traditional sense but it had the effect of it. Had a woman I've known for over a decade get some serious surgery done due to medical issues. At the time she was overflowing an L cup with almost 50 inch hips and ass cheeks like basketballs. Hadn't seen her in six months since the surgery until last night. Probab ly half the size everywhere, and while she's got the hourglass figure and still rocking an ample (I'd guess) DD or F, the massive loss plus the knowledge that I was firmly friendzoned killed off what little attraction was left. Probably for the best.

Sometimes you gotta cut your loss and move on. I've been firmly placed in the friendzone by my big boobed friend who I had feelings for. "It won't ever happen, and you gotta decide if you wanna move on as friends or never talk again". I took some time to think and some time away, searched for other big boobed girls, found a few and I'm trying to get to know them a bit. I was actually invited to a party tomorrow/today/now-ish, but it's in the other end of the country, I'm poor and broke at the moment unfortunately, and it was a little too short-notice, but she's one of the girls you look at and get an instant boner - big fucking fuckable tits that I wouldn't mind wrapped around my dick. I didn't go, but made sure she knew I would like to see her some other time. Need to move faster than I usually do, I guess, not to get myself friendzoned with my often overly friendly approach, which is hardly working!
 
Sometimes you gotta cut your loss and move on. I've been firmly placed in the friendzone by my big boobed friend who I had feelings for. "It won't ever happen, and you gotta decide if you wanna move on as friends or never talk again". I took some time to think and some time away, searched for other big boobed girls, found a few and I'm trying to get to know them a bit. I was actually invited to a party tomorrow/today/now-ish, but it's in the other end of the country, I'm poor and broke at the moment unfortunately, and it was a little too short-notice, but she's one of the girls you look at and get an instant boner - big fucking fuckable tits that I wouldn't mind wrapped around my dick. I didn't go, but made sure she knew I would like to see her some other time. Need to move faster than I usually do, I guess, not to get myself friendzoned with my often overly friendly approach, which is hardly working!
Parallel lives!!!
As I'm not the son of Crod, I end up in the friendzone more often than nut. But it's actually "cool", as long as you don't become the errand boy or the emotional tampon, or the human ATM - because simping ain't easy!
 
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That's kinda the fear I have now going into any relationship or meeting girls with really big breasts. There's a chance they'd want them gone. There's really only ending it, should that happen. It's downhill regardless.

You either stay for the personality, which is hopefully good, but lose all sexual chemistry, leading to a dead sex life and it seems a woman will feel unattractive then, leading to insecurities and tension in the relationship.

Or you're the bad guy breaking up, because of the lack of sexual attraction. Of course you might need to come up with a good excuse for it, but it would be obvious to anyone that "tits gone" is the reason for breaking up.

If you ask me, searching for the whole package, instead of "settling for less", and being what some people may call superficial, is not that at all. You want to instill confidence and good self-esteem about their personality and body and make them feel attractive. Without one or the other, at some point it's doomed to fail for me. I struggle even settling "just for the boobs", I need something else too - a functional brain is sexy too, but not without the boobs.

You know what I'm saying here though, of course. I don't really find it that superficial to have preferences, even if ours may be considered a bit extreme.
I’m with you

Fortunately I found my wife who has 34kk. Not the biggest tits I’ve been with but she’s the total package. Incredible human being on every level.

And I’m not worried because she loves her breasts. Lol

one of the most disappointing ones for me
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Definitely tragic.
 
Does anyone know if Adderall can effect breast size?

There is a girl I see on a regular basis who was a 40H.

She has been taking adderall for the past several months and has gone down to a 38F.

She is still big, but her tits are really not as noticeable as before. It’s to the point where if she was wearing a T shirt they would always be popping out to the point I couldn’t keep my hands off.

Today you don’t even notice her breasts.

She has lost some weight and I’m wondering if it’s the adderall?

BTW, this is not the other girl I posted pics of. She has actually gotten bigger.
 
She has lost some weight and I’m wondering if it’s the adderall?
Hi Dave, I have seen this too in a chick who took adderall. But really, it's just weight loss. I don't think adderall does anything specific to breast tissue at all; rather it is a system-wide amphetamine so the person taking it just loses weight all over their whole body. Unfortunately, she happens to be one of those people who loses weight in the tits first.
 
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