Anyone want to be totally honest and cop to DMing random girls on social media

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Specifically, DMing random (probably well endowed) girls that live far, far away from your current location with whom you have absolutely no chance to make any kind of meaningful connection. If so, I applaud your honesty, but I've got to know what compels you to do this. I've always wondered what clicks inside someone's mind that leads them to believe that doing this is in any way a good idea. Has doing this paid dividends? If someone actually responds in the affirmative, I honestly am not doing this to browbeat anyone, call them creepy, etc. (not that this isn't an incredibly weird thing to do). I've always wanted to hear it straight from these people what compels them to take this approach and whether it's actually borne any fruit.
 
Specifically, DMing random (probably well endowed) girls that live far, far away from your current location with whom you have absolutely no chance to make any kind of meaningful connection. If so, I applaud your honesty, but I've got to know what compels you to do this. I've always wondered what clicks inside someone's mind that leads them to believe that doing this is in any way a good idea. Has doing this paid dividends? If someone actually responds in the affirmative, I honestly am not doing this to browbeat anyone, call them creepy, etc. (not that this isn't an incredibly weird thing to do). I've always wanted to hear it straight from these people what compels them to take this approach and whether it's actually borne any fruit.
I’ve probably done it about 20 times....mostly through IG and Reddit. Out of those 20, I’ve hooked up with 3 of them. I like the challenge of hooking up with someone who gets 100s of DMs a day from guys like me trying to hook up with her.

I can do an AMA if you or anyone else has any specific questions
 
Specifically, DMing random (probably well endowed) girls that live far, far away from your current location with whom you have absolutely no chance to make any kind of meaningful connection. If so, I applaud your honesty, but I've got to know what compels you to do this. I've always wondered what clicks inside someone's mind that leads them to believe that doing this is in any way a good idea. Has doing this paid dividends? If someone actually responds in the affirmative, I honestly am not doing this to browbeat anyone, call them creepy, etc. (not that this isn't an incredibly weird thing to do). I've always wanted to hear it straight from these people what compels them to take this approach and whether it's actually borne any fruit.
I do it now and then on Twitter, WhatsApp, Hangouts, Snapchat, etc...
I start with a nice chat with them, compliment them and then ask if they’d send me a picture of them. Sometimes I get it and sometimes I don’t. If I don’t then I apologize, tell them I understand and then move on to a girl that will give me what I desire
 
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I’ve probably done it about 20 times....mostly through IG and Reddit. Out of those 20, I’ve hooked up with 3 of them. I like the challenge of hooking up with someone who gets 100s of DMs a day from guys like me trying to hook up with her.

I can do an AMA if you or anyone else has any specific questions

any one from the forum?

as for me, I'll only do it if they're in my area (not immediate area, but somewhere where actually meeting them wouldn't be too farfetched) and there's an open (some story/post I can relate to)

unfortunately there aren't many busty girls around here, so I've only chatted with one girl that has been posted here. there was some flirting, but she was still far away (1000km+) she ended up getting a boyfriend afterwards.
 
Yea there is a super sexy insta chick that i seen off one of these sites.. i DMed her. she was def into me. I didnt make it far cuz i was already in a serious relationship lol it works out if you know how to not make it creepy. She got 42k followers n she folos me back still
 
I've replied to a few insta stories when drunk. But usually just reaction emojis. One girl messaged me back, was really sweet and we had a nice conversation.. though I think it was mainly to promote her cam services. Lol
 
I’m friends with several models/escorts.

They get dozens of these messages per day, it’s delete, delete, delete. They don’t bother reading most of them.

The only way your going to get a reply back is if you offer them money, and then they only do the minimum that is required if you pay them.

I guess you could take the shot gun approach, message 50 of them and see which ones respond back.

I did something a few years ago and paid a service $300/mo to fix my profile and get me a date.

They did an hour long interview, had me send all my pictures to them and they rewrote my profile and picked my best pictures.

They basically said they could guarantee a date per week.

The problem was that all they would do is send out messages every day and see which ones would respond back.

They found a few cute girls, but nobody I was willing to invest time in for a date.

My #1 requirement was boobs, which was almost impossible to find. But I wasn’t interested in a 1 night stand either. Maybe I’m too picky.

I think I did find 1 girl who said she had never been in a real date before. I actually wanted to take her out, but she declined at the last minute
 
99.9999% of these messages are just fodder for their group chats and insta stories.

The days of sliding into dms with any comparative ease are long gone as so many guys pump out these messages.
 
I’ve probably done it about 20 times....mostly through IG and Reddit. Out of those 20, I’ve hooked up with 3 of them. I like the challenge of hooking up with someone who gets 100s of DMs a day from guys like me trying to hook up with her.

I can do an AMA if you or anyone else has any specific questions
so were these girls in your area? i've got to say, i have a hard time believing a lot of the responses ITT given the number of DM's these girls get every day and i'm sure 99% of them are creepy and a complete turn off, but let's hear the details of your experiences if you're comfortable describing them OTB.
 
so were these girls in your area? i've got to say, i have a hard time believing a lot of the responses ITT given the number of DM's these girls get every day and i'm sure 99% of them are creepy and a complete turn off, but let's hear the details of your experiences if you're comfortable describing them OTB.
I live in the Social Media Capital of the world, Los Angeles....so ya, most of the girls live in my area.

I don’t do it as much now because these girls are smart as fuck now and don’t give a fuck about nothing but making money.
 
Specifically, DMing random (probably well endowed) girls that live far, far away from your current location with whom you have absolutely no chance to make any kind of meaningful connection. If so, I applaud your honesty, but I've got to know what compels you to do this. I've always wondered what clicks inside someone's mind that leads them to believe that doing this is in any way a good idea. Has doing this paid dividends? If someone actually responds in the affirmative, I honestly am not doing this to browbeat anyone, call them creepy, etc. (not that this isn't an incredibly weird thing to do). I've always wanted to hear it straight from these people what compels them to take this approach and whether it's actually borne any fruit.
From what I've heard, they always say "I don't know"
 
A quick story: I met this girl on a dating app, she lives in a distant city and I immediately accepted that I would never see her in my life, but I started talking anyway. With time and the right encouragement we were already exchanging photos, obviously I knew from the beginning what she was carrying because of some photos on her profile, it didn't take long and we were planning to meet, without a car and without much money but really wanting to see some big tits, I spent more than a week with her doing everything you can imagine. There's always a chance my friend, even if it's small at first.
 

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