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bigboob12345
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 8:47 pm    Post subject: Settle for average boob girl or keep hunting for big boobs? Reply with quote

Do any of you guys find it difficult to commit to an average boob size girl?

I'm currently seeing a girl that's a B cup, she's quite pretty and we get along really well. BUT after not seeing her for a few days, I seem to go back to craving a girl with a big pair of tits again. I'm not sure how I'm going to resist this if I get into a relationship with her. I realise it's ridiculously shallow and immature, but I'm just so much more attracted to average/slim girl with big boobs that I can see myself cheating eventually.

I think I'm just about attractive enough to get a girl who is my physical ideal or close to it (which would be an E cup or above and an average or slim body), but finding one that's my physical ideal and someone who I have an emotional connection with (like with this girl) might be pretty difficult and I'm doubting if it's worth carrying on or I should just settle for this girl and try and ignore my big boob obsession?

I wish I didn't give a shit about boob size! It limits the choice down to 5% of the population or less if you take into account they need a half decent face and not to be overweight. I just want a nice down to earth girl who happens to be stacked to fuck! Haha.

For those of you who are with an average boobed woman, do you regret it? Do you wish you kept on the hunt for what you really want?

Also, I haven't ever been with a girl bigger than a D cup yet, so is it really that much better? Do F/G cups feel alot softer to you?

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 9:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Another problem is that a lot of these slim and stacked girls you mention (like busty buffy or merilyn) HATE guys with a big boob fetish/preference.

Moreover, a lot of them, even with an ugly face, have their fair share of suitors.

So even if you find a busty rare girl like that, winning her over is very difficult.

Unless you re handsome and smooth as fok of course.
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 10:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, I think it's something I'd keep quiet until later on, so they're not freaked out by it.

Haha, yeah- that's part of the dilemma! They don't have to be quite as extreme as Merilyn/Buffy. I'd still be happy with a slightly smaller chest and 20 lbs more fat if I'm honest, which I think is gettable with my looks. Finding a girl with that body and with a good personality is a completely different matter though!

It must be so much easier for those guys who like regular bodies. They've got a choice of pretty much everybody. I just don't understand how you anybody wouldn't care either way about boob size?
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 11:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My ex wife was a leggy stunner,but she had small boobs and hated having them touched.So for five years ofof our relationship I only got to feel those perky tits with big puffy nipples about about a dozen times.If I recall (this was about twenty years ago)it didn't bother me because our sex life was so great although if I saw a big titted woman I sort of longed for it.When we bust up shortly after I hooked up with a lady with watermelons and loved her tits played with.Then I realised what I had been missing.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 12:00 pm    Post subject: Re: Settle for average boob girl or keep hunting for big boo Reply with quote

bigboob12345 wrote:
after not seeing her for a few days, I seem to go back to craving a girl with a big pair of tits again.
I think you answered your own question with this phrase. Normally, absence makes the heart grow fonder. In this case, absence made you want to seek out other women instead of your girl. I think you have to break it off now with the girl you are with. The heart wants what the heart wants.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 5:17 pm    Post subject: Re: Settle for average boob girl or keep hunting for big boo Reply with quote

antoniorosa wrote:
bigboob12345 wrote:
after not seeing her for a few days, I seem to go back to craving a girl with a big pair of tits again.
I think you answered your own question with this phrase. Normally, absence makes the heart grow fonder. In this case, absence made you want to seek out other women instead of your girl. I think you have to break it off now with the girl you are with. The heart wants what the heart wants.


Personally I would be careful about jumping to that conclusion. There could be other factors, like if you're looking at a lot of pictures of big boobed women online etc, that could definitely influence your mentality, what you focus on, and what turns you on.

There's no right and wrong in this... if being with a large breasted woman is really a very high priority for you, then yeah go for it. Go date large breasted women and see who you find. But if you have a good connection with the woman you're with, my advice (humbly, without knowing you at all) would be to not undervalue that emotional connection. Everyone has flaws and there are always other women in the world to tempt you. That will never change.

You asked about whether you should keep hunting. Our culture gives us this message a lot: Keep looking for that perfect person. Shoot for the moon. Don't settle. These are the stories we absorb most often. It's also the lesson of internet porn: keep hunting for that perfect stimulation. Internet porn is an ocean of outrageously hot women. You can pick your exact flavor of big boobed lady, and for the most part her personality is not even a factor. All of this makes it easier to believe in this idea that we need to keep searching until we find the exact right person.

I've lived long enough to learn that it's not all about comparison shopping. Actually, a lot of being happy is how well you can appreciate and nurture what you have. Relationships can develop a lot over time. The sexiest thing in a relationship is having mutual trust so you can really enjoy each other and open up exciting kinds of interaction, which can include sex, foreplay, flirtation, talking..... Even if your girlfriend doesn't have the huge boobs of your dreams, you might find out they are really fun boobs when she knows how much you like them and you guys know how to turn each other on. And you may find out there are other things about her that are just as exciting, maybe in a totally different way.

Your own mentality can develop a lot over time, too. If you're thinking about super hot models and porn stars regularly, you might be sort of brainwashing yourself to not appreciate what your girlfriend has to offer. In my own life, for a long time I didn't realize how much looking at porn was affecting what turned me on. I thought I was just seeking out what I liked, and didn't see how it was affecting me in return. It can be easy to miss things like that.

I may be assuming too much about you, but really I'm talking from experience. You can bet that in this forum there are lots of guys who will tell you that big boobs should be your top priority. And sure, if big boobs are what you need, god bless. But in your question I hear you struggling a bit with how much that narrows your dating pool, and saying you have a connection with the woman you're with. Well, that's worth thinking about. Big boobs are great but there's honestly more to life.

Plus, you said she's quite pretty, you get along really well and have an emotional connection. Dude, you hit the jackpot!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm in exactly the predicament, although my gf is on the otherside of the world which would make breaking up easier. Nevertheless we're very close and I feel absolutely awful about it. She's a great girl.

I had a gf once, a pretty, skinny little thing with double Fs, but her personality stank - vain, selfish and of average intelligence at best. If I could put the current gf's brain in her I'd be the happiest man alive.

I hate myself for it but I just don't think I can be happy handling B cups forever.

Best of luck with whatever you decide to do Sir!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 6:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for the replies everyone.

Yeah, it's a difficult one because I'm still relatively new to the dating game, so I'm still not sure just how rare finding a (what seems like now) perfect marriage material personality is. We can talk for hours about anything, she's clever, funny and seems all round trust worthy, so I'm worried that if I move on and fuck some big boobed girls, I'll realise that it's not as good as I thought and finding someone with this sort of chemistry is FAR more difficult and important than I'm thinking right now.

She doesn't have the issue of not liking them played with and sucked like grasbo said his ex had, which is good, but I just feel like if her boobs were a few sizes bigger I'd be so much more turned on and 100% committed to her without having to resist bigger boobed girls. I've been big boob obsessed since coming out the womb, but I realise thinking with your dick doesn't always lead to very well thought out decisions, so I'm split.

Yeah borismor, it is possible that all this big boob porn could be affecting just how much I like well endowed women, but I have always had a strong preference for them. I've found that if an average looking girl has huge boobs, they're instantly a 10 in my mind. If I just sort of liked this girl's personality, then it would be an easy decision to walk away, but there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with her except a lack of bloody fat on her chest! It's completely ridiculous and so frustrating!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 6:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Btw, my "B Cup Lover" status is comically ironic right now! Haha!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just curious, how long have you been with this girl?

Sounds like things are going really great so far, but you're nervous about getting deeper into it (you're already thinking about marriage in the back of your mind), because you think other women might be more sexually interesting.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 6:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ah yeah Prof. Pnin, it's bloody difficult isn't it? I know it's ridiculous because they are just boobs, but can I really see myself staying with her forever when there's a chance I could get both personality and a bigger set of boobs with a different girl in the future? Still a hard choice regardless though!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 6:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

borismor, it's only about 4 months so far, so early days to say the least. I don't feel like she's putting on an act or anything though. She just seems like a genuinely nice girl. A part of me hopes that she randomly starts to show her true colours, so this isn't as bloody difficult!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bigboob12345 wrote:
borismor, it's only about 4 months so far, so early days to say the least. I don't feel like she's putting on an act or anything though. She just seems like a genuinely nice girl. A part of me hopes that she randomly starts to show her true colours, so this isn't as bloody difficult!


Haha, well it sounds great so far. If you are waiting for an excuse to break up, an excuse will probably come along eventually, because that's life.

I'm like you, I always had a strong preference for large-breasted women, and I fed that preoccupation with sites like this one. Out in the world, there was always something next-level magical about big boobed girls I saw, because it was like "omg I found one!"

Like you, I considered myself decently good looking and also a nice person, and so I expected that I should be able to date really hot women. I saw not-great-looking, kinda lame guys dating hot women, and thought if those bozos can do it, surely I can have whatever I want.

That was my mentality back then.

When I met my wife, I wasn't really trying to settle down, necessarily. But I didn't want to fuck a million different girls, either. I just wanted to find a super hot girl and be head-over-heels in love with her. Despite not being an ogre, I felt I hadn't dated enough (I'd always been awkward about it in some ways), but I was gaining confidence and believed I could find someone totally amazing.

Within a year or two before I met my wife, I dated a number of different girls, seeing most of them just once or a few times. A couple of those girls I didn't really click with, there just wasn't much in common. A couple of them were attractive but had some personality issue that turned me off. One or two weren't into me. And I dated one girl who I thought was suuuuper hot (big boobs and all) but she got scared off when I invited her up to my apartment in an awkward way. Stupid me.

The girl who became my wife was the one I kept seeing, week after week. I felt like we were the same kind of person, in a lot of ways. We enjoyed music together and had the same criticisms of movies. We supported and encouraged each others careers. Things felt really home-y with her.

But she was more enthusiastic about me than I was about her, and that worried me. I found a lot of fault with her, her appearance and some things she did. I would think a lot about those flaws, really focus on them. I complained to friends and worried that I was settling. In general I felt angry or resentful that I had to put up with things she did (and sometimes that anger was justified).

She didn't have big boobs, and yeah for me at the time that was still the biggest turn on. From time to time I'd think about that super hot girl I had the one bungled date with, and it bothered me.

It took a while, but our relationship changed. I stopped holding back and putting limits on my time, etc, the way I used to. We got better at paying attention to each other, which improved communication and chemistry. I also found out that she had a great butt and found out I really liked that, even though I'd never cared about butts before. And I've got another kink that I finally told her about and she enjoys using that to get me going too. My point is, there's a lot of dimension to the relationship that evolved over time, that I couldn't have planned or even known to look for.

A relationship will surprise you. Months and years in, it will surprise you. Bottom line is, when you're having fun with a person you trust who turns you on like crazy because of your unique chemistry, that's all that matters. When you find that thing that gets you both going, and you're having great sex and feel happy and satisfied, that's all that matters. She will look different to you the more you nurture your chemistry. It's okay that there are other sexy things in the world, other people. When you're happy it doesn't matter.

I always worried I hadn't dated enough and therefore wouldn't find the best person. I always got insecure when I heard about people falling madly in love right away, thinking my relationship should be like that too. I tended to fixate on the flaws with my wife (then girlfriend). All these things made me insecure, and gave me reasons to question the relationship.

In my case, the relationships that needed to end found a way of ending. The people that weren't good matches had a way of drifting on. The girl I found myself spending time with week after week, she's the keeper. And there was a lot I didn't know about her, myself, and us, at the beginning.

So that's me. And yeah I'm still a dude who comes to this forum to see boobs. I've learned a bit about how it affects me and I try to keep things in balance.

By the way, a little while ago I looked up that super hot girl I'd had the one date with. I found a few professional photos of her. My reaction to the photos ranged from "yeah she's pretty hot" to "ugh, that's not a flattering shot at all". I had idealized her. I mean, she's beautiful, but she's just a human being. With the same kind of flaws as any other woman.

I don't know if this really applies to you, but based on how you've been talking about it, and the fact that you're 4 months into this and really happy but also questioning everything, and asking for advice on a porn forum (where there are honestly tons of dysfunctional attitudes represented, no offense and I'm not thinking of anyone specific), here's my humble suggestion:

If the relationship isn't built to last, it won't. Don't try to force a judgement in your mind.

Put aside these worries for now. Enjoy this girl. Develop trust. When it comes to sex (and flirting; that doesn't end), try things. Have fun.

Learn to observe your own thoughts and feelings. Just notice when a worry comes up. Try not to obsess on negative thoughts. Don't judge the thoughts, just notice them and let them go. You can gain better understanding of yourself this way.

Dial back the porn. Maybe gradually, maybe all at once, whatever works for you. See if you can get away from it for a few weeks at a time. Instead of using photos or videos, get back to your imagination (forgive how personal this is, obviously I don't know you, but it's not a bad thing in any case).

Enjoy her.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's how the story goes,settle for less go out the next day you see the monster tits you have been looking for,then you tell yourself i should have waited just a bit longer.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Never, EVER, EVER SETTLE.

I did with my first wife and it led to divorce.

To thy own self be true.

You'll never be satisfied.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for the reply.

Huh, this is really odd borismor because what you're describing is almost exactly what I'm experiencing! She's always been the one doing the majority of the chasing after the first date, so overall, I think she's more into me than I'm into her. She also has an amazing bum, which before I wouldn't have said I cared about, but I've grown to like it!

I also seem to be having the same problem as you, where I feel like I'm settling because I know she doesn't match my physical ideal. I've dated a few good looking girls, but none of them had really big tits, but it still shows that larger busts with average or above average faces aren't out of my league.

Like I said I do like her, but I am absolutely longing for a big pair of boobs though, so I don't know how I'm going to resist this for the rest of my life! An F-J cup pair of tits on an average sized body can bring the girl from a 6/10 to a 9.5/10. I think I might have a disproportionate attraction to them compared to the average guy. They just look so feminine and sexy.

Ah well, cheers for your advice! Got a decent amount of thinking to do I'm afraid!
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 10:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, I'm glad that what I wrote connected with you. Especially since it ended up being so long! Glad it did not go to waste.

Just one other thought, and again I am really just talking about my own stuff. The worry about finding someone in a certain "league"… It could be, partly, a sort of self-critical thought, like "I'm letting myself down if I don't aim higher", or "in my life I deserve to be really happy with my mate, not just kind of happy, and I'm failing if I don't get what I really want".

I think you'd agree that at some point in life, we all hope to leave behind this way of thinking. No matter who you end up with, how sexy she will seem to you will vary (up and down) over time. And there will always be other, sexier women. Eventually, there will be younger women.

But I get it: the idea is that if you find someone in a satisfactory league, that will give you enough comfort to get over the ambivalence. Assuming you are not then plagued with thoughts that you miss being with a girl with a great sense of humor who was easy to hang with, or whatever it is. There's always something. In any case, I found it helpful to recognize those comparative thoughts as something to outgrow, something that would eventually just be in the way of contentment.

Anyway, I'm sure I've outstayed my welcome now. I don't mean to act like I know what's right for you, because I certainly don't, but I did want to present an alternate viewpoint because I know that the predominant messages are "don't settle! Trust your gut! If something is wrong, get out!". I've seen enough friends date one great girl after another, always something not quite right. In the end it's all about being able to live with another human being and make something of that. I mean, if she's great. Smile
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sbstevenson13 wrote:
Another problem is that a lot of these slim and stacked girls you mention (like busty buffy or merilyn) HATE guys with a big boob fetish/preference.

Moreover, a lot of them, even with an ugly face, have their fair share of suitors.

So even if you find a busty rare girl like that, winning her over is very difficult.


Lesson learned. One time I saw one of these plain looking but huge chested ladies at a bar and worked up enough courage to approach her. Even though I hadn't seen any guys even make an attempt all night, and I'm a normal looking guy, she completely blew me off with a few consecutive one word answers. It was like running face first into a wall at 50 mph.

Obviously, no one is entitled to anyone else's time, or even their respect. And getting turned down by a woman is a common enough event. But even when I've approached other normal boobed women in the past (in person, not online), they've always typically been polite and found ways to indicate their level of interest. It's only been gargantuan chested women like that one who have completely given me the metaphorical finger, and I think it's for exactly the reasons you've discussed. They get approached by boob guys all the time. many of whom have zero manners, and develop contempt for them.
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slammer51 wrote:
sbstevenson13 wrote:
Another problem is that a lot of these slim and stacked girls you mention (like busty buffy or merilyn) HATE guys with a big boob fetish/preference.

Moreover, a lot of them, even with an ugly face, have their fair share of suitors.

So even if you find a busty rare girl like that, winning her over is very difficult.


Lesson learned. One time I saw one of these plain looking but huge chested ladies at a bar and worked up enough courage to approach her. Even though I hadn't seen any guys even make an attempt all night, and I'm a normal looking guy, she completely blew me off with a few consecutive one word answers. It was like running face first into a wall at 50 mph.

Obviously, no one is entitled to anyone else's time, or even their respect. And getting turned down by a woman is a common enough event. But even when I've approached other normal boobed women in the past (in person, not online), they've always typically been polite and found ways to indicate their level of interest. It's only been gargantuan chested women like that one who have completely given me the metaphorical finger, and I think it's for exactly the reasons you've discussed. They get approached by boob guys all the time. many of whom have zero manners, and develop contempt for them.


Its not only about manners.

See, big boobs are seen as a catch in our culture, even if the girl wouldnt be anything to write home about without those tits. Moreover guys liking massive boobs are a minorty, but girls with massive tits are a MUCH SMALLER MINORITY, so you get a skewed demand and supply.

These girls know they have a massive Sexual Market Value, so they often are EXTREMELY arrogant.

Its like handsome, muscular well-endowed men, they know they are wanted, and subsequently develop an inflated self esteem
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[quote="sbstevenson13"][quote="slammer51"]
sbstevenson13 wrote:

These girls know they have a massive Sexual Market Value, so they often are EXTREMELY arrogant.

Its like handsome, muscular well-endowed men, they know they are wanted, and subsequently develop an inflated self esteem


I think the male equivalent is financial power. Yeah some younger girls value a good body and a big dick. But the ultimate is showing off mega wealth.
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I guess we all need a small loan of a million dollars and we'll be on our way to boobie heaven! Haha.
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Hold out as long as you can. I will go into depth on the philosophy later.
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bigboob12345 wrote:
I guess we all need a small loan of a million dollars and we'll be on our way to boobie heaven! Haha.

Bank OF America has been put on notice.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 12, 2016 8:21 pm    Post subject: Thanks for the thread. Reply with quote

I feel better now that i know i am not alone in the world. I love petite women with (real) big boobs. I had this once in my life and it was great for the short time it lasted. Unfortunately the kids got in the way and it ended.
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Well, I'd prefer a small boobed gal who appeals to me vs a big boobed gal who doesn't (though, a paper bag might help Laughing ).

Of course, finding a big boobed gal who appeals to me has priority. And, probably the reason that I'm not married at 56.

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[quote="9InchLegend"][quote="sbstevenson13"]
slammer51 wrote:
sbstevenson13 wrote:

These girls know they have a massive Sexual Market Value, so they often are EXTREMELY arrogant.

Its like handsome, muscular well-endowed men, they know they are wanted, and subsequently develop an inflated self esteem


I think the male equivalent is financial power. Yeah some younger girls value a good body and a big dick. But the ultimate is showing off mega wealth.


Well I know guys who are engineers, they make quite an impressive amount of money, yet they have no luck with women whatsoever.

I dont think financial power is that much of a catch, unless you have a lot of other positive attributes.

Big tits however are enough power in itself, even if the girl is ugly with a terrible character
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2016 10:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I´m stunned by the nuance and depth of this thread!

Very interesting views by Borismor.

I have been longing for huge breasts while engaged with flat-chested women and I did tell myself that this is just a habit of never being satisfied.

Being with a woman with F-Cups for some years now, I see this in a different light. Touching or just looking at her breasts gives me a deep sense of satisfaction and fullfillment.
This tissue and fat in the chest area triggers not only arousal in me, but also deep emotions of accomplishment.

To me, my reaction feels strong, deep and significant, even though I am well aware that I´m objectifying.

That said, I don´t have an advice.

Because, my life is not pure bliss since I´m with her. Some aspects of our relationship are more challenging and less comforting, compared to the relationship I was in before.

Also, like Borismor, I found other kinks with former girlfriends that were exciting and which I do sometimes miss now.

My personal way of handling this is being polyamorous - that is, having other romantic or sexual contacts and being transparent about it. I would not actually propagate this lifestyle - it can be demanding and complicated.

But looking at your situation from that perspective might inspire the question why you perceive your situation completely as either/or-dilemma.

Just my fantasy, please don´t be offended:
Maybe your girlfriend is also into big boobs.
Or perhaps she likes you being obsessed with pervy stuff.

Well, this is probably sheer nonsense, but after all, women are sexual beings too, they also have strange kinks and obsessions, so, maybe if you are open about it you will find resonance instead of a dead-end.

Good luck!

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2016 1:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

To really find out, you should hook up with chicks with huge tits, just go for the experience of huge tits. If you are curious, and the option is there, go for it! But don't be a pussy and cheat, be a man.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 25, 2016 11:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I committed to and married a average-breasted girl. I LOVE me some large boobs and I've never been with a large-breasted girl. Would I love it if her boobs were bigger? Absolutely. Does it make me wish I'd waited to see if I found a more stacked girl. Nope nope nope nope. Not at all.

Every once and a while I see or meet a girl that makes me think "she'd be fun to date" or "she's got a fantastic body." Thing is, though, finding the right person is about looking at alll the factors. In my case, all the pluses (including other physical attributes) make her not having huge boobs a non-issue. Find someone makes you happy overall, all things considered.

If your current relationship isn't doing it for you consider the possibility it may not be just the boobs, but a combination of factors. As you've said, you're new to the dating scene, so perhaps you need to dive back in. While you're dating and not married, you have the option to just have a fling. Perhaps you can get it out of your system. I've met plenty of guys dating girls who were their physical ideal...they got sick of them because their personalities weren't a good match and it created all kinds of problems.

...Oh, and DEFINITELY don't cheat.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2016 9:12 am    Post subject: Re: Settle for average boob girl or keep hunting for big boo Reply with quote

antoniorosa wrote:
bigboob12345 wrote:
after not seeing her for a few days, I seem to go back to craving a girl with a big pair of tits again.
I think you answered your own question with this phrase. Normally, absence makes the heart grow fonder. In this case, absence made you want to seek out other women instead of your girl. I think you have to break it off now with the girl you are with. The heart wants what the heart wants.


Bad advice. Keep fucking the girlfriend if you enjoy her. No need to break it off. You can fuck the gals with the big juggs too! If your small-tittyed bitch doesn't like that, then she can leave but why expend your energy breaking it off? Live with the one that's a good cook and cleans house. Then keep fucking who you like. Just remember, hide your money.
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